Anywhere people work together conflict is inevitable. As a manager you must work to promote healthy associate relationships and deal with conflict in a constructive manner. Harassment in the workplace is a serious issue every manager should educate themselves on. Sooner or later you will deal with it.
Sometimes what starts as poking fun or seemingly innocent banter between associates can grow into a conflict. Words are exchanged, perhaps provocations occur. Now as a manager you are faced with dealing with harassment in the workplace.
What is Harassment?
So what constitutes harassment? Harassment is any improper conduct by an individual, that is directed at and offensive to another person or persons in the workplace, and that the individual knew or ought reasonably to have known would cause offence or harm. It comprises any objectionable act, comment or display that demeans, belittles, or causes personal humiliation or embarrassment, and any act of intimidation or threat.
Harassment Examples
- Serious or repeated rude, degrading, or offensive remarks such as teasing about a person’s physical characteristics or appearance, put-downs or insults.
- Displaying sexist, racist or other offensive pictures, posters, or sending e-mails containing such material.
- Repeatedly singling out an employee for meaningless or dirty jobs that are not part of their normal duties.
- Threats, intimidation or retaliation against an employee, including one who has expressed concerns about perceived unethical or illegal workplace behaviors.
- Unwelcome social invitations, with sexual overtones or flirting, with a subordinate.
- Unwelcome sexual advances.
Often the person being harassed does not say anything. They may laugh at a joke or act as if what is said or done does not bother them, when in fact it does. Over time the toll this takes on an associate builds. They may begin performing poorly at their job. They may start calling in sick or being late for work. In their mind the workplace has become something they dread or want to avoid.
In this manner you may think you are dealing with a performance issue, when in fact the root cause is the associate feels they are being harassed. As with any performance issue you should sit down in private and discuss the issue. As part of any performance issue you should throw out the question if they have an issues with their co-workers.
Proactive Harassment Prevention
The best approach to preventing harassment in the workplace is to be proactive. Don’t wait until an incident occurs. Make sure all associates are well aware of company policies and federal laws. Many associates may not realize what they are doing can be considered harassment.
When you hear about or notice behavior that could be seen as harassment hold a meeting with all associates. Do not single out an instance or a person, but merely read relevant parts of your harassment policy. This act alone will usually stop such behavior. Associates will know you are aware and that you take such behavior seriously.
When an off-color or disparaging remark is made by an associate address it by telling them that is not appropriate in the workplace. If it continues have a private discussion with the associate about the harassment policy and let them know you have zero tolerance for such behavior.
The root of harassment is a lack of respect. One of the best ways to promote respect among associates is to set a good example and promote professionalism. While you may not be able to change the views or opinions of others, you can demand that they be kept out of the workplace.
What to Do When Harassment Occurs
Never ignore a complaint about harassment. You could be held liable for not taking prompt action. Don’t think the problem will just go away. Harassment must be dealt with immediately to protect yourself, the company and the workplace environment.
- When someone comes to you with a complaint about harassment take the time right then to sit down with them and discuss the issue in private.
- Never address or speak with an associate about any claims of harassment in public. Take them to a private place where nobody can be seen or heard. If you have a supervisor or another manager you may want them to attend. A witness to a harassment discussion may be useful if down the road if what is discussed is disputed.
- Do not try and lead the discussion. Let the associate give a complete narrative of what happened and do not interrupt them.
- Take notes on everything the associate says, do not rely on your memory. Do not editorialize or otherwise add your own comments in the notes. They can become legal documents.
- When the associate is done look over your notes and look for holes in the details you need to fill in. Be careful in your questioning. You only want to ask questions that will fully document the incident. Thank them for coming to you and let them know the issue will be addressed. Tell them should any further harassment occur they should come to you immediately.
- If your company has a human resources department you should consult with them right away. They are the experts in the field and you should always take advantage of their expertise when dealing with harassment issues.
LIsa says
today was my going away parth when the manager shows up and say i have something to give out. she then stated ” i bought candy that reflects the candy, so of you might find it offensive and other won’t well I don’t care” well i dig in my bag and she had put “Airhead” candy in the bag. then she states its because your always forgetting things. Which in fact was the beginning of my job and left my key once, she says this.
what can i do.
Sam says
To start with I would ask to sit down and talk with your manager about the issue that led them to do this. This way you have a clear (hopefully) understanding of what the issue that led to this is. After the meeting document the conversation. If your company has a Human Resources department I would then speak to them about this. If HR is not available to you try talking to the person your manager reports to. This kind of behavior is unacceptable under any circumstances. Clearly this manager lacks vital skills needed to be a manager.
Wendy says
Hi I have a situation at my workplace and would like to see if you have any advice on how to deal with it. I have been an employee of my schoolplace for over 25 years. 9 months ago we hired a new staff member (who has worked for us about 3 years ago and then left) In the last 9 months I have endured non-stop, almost daily harrassment and bullying from this staff member and now another staff member of about 6 years(they have teamed up) i have approached my immediate supervisor several times since it began a month after she started. With no resolution, and not even sure whether she documented them. However I have been documenting. They have received no reprimand or any consequence for their bad behavior. Have been told that I am being ‘targeted’ but i should just ignore it, and not listen to the comments. The one person works in my room everyday, have asked to be transferred to a different room, but was denied. I was ‘allowed’ to have a 2 week respite from my room, but during that time I was placed in a room with the other ‘bully’ and listened to nasty comments about why I was in ‘her’ room. There has been no lessening of the nasty and belittling comments, and I was actually told other staff members that the two have been making comments about my skin colour, as i am caucasian and work in an non-causcasian enviroment. There have been comments about my education, my family, comments about personal issues in my life, undermining me with children, comments on my work etc. I have gone to head of department with documentation of the situation a month ago. “i have had no response since. Now today I have to attend a meeting with ALL staff present to deal with the situation that has now trickled down to other staff members and these staff are being made feel very uncomfortable with how these 2 people talk about me, my work, my family, and my being causcasian.
Can you give me any advice?
Sam says
From what you describe there is no doubt this is harassment on several levels. Your supervisor should have handled it, but it is disturbing that the head of the department has not addressed the issue. This type of behavior cannot be tolerated in the workplace under any circumstances. I would have suggested that the issue may be addressed and you are not aware of it since disciplinary actions should be private. But since it still continues it sounds like you are being ignored. The only advice I can give you is to follow up with everyone you have brought this issue to and see what they say. If that doesn’t work you may want to seek outside help. What you describe could very well be in violation of federal law. If your school is in a school system consider reaching out to them or local school board members. Another path is the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission which is the agency of the federal government responsible for investigating charges of job discrimination relating to race discrimination in workplace. States also have departments that deal with this. Understand you do not have to accept discrimination in the workplace. At some point you will reach someone who will force your school to deal with the issue.
Wendy says
thank you for your response. It has been very helpful. Your suggestions will go far.